I’ll admit it. 

Our dog, Kira, a 50-lb Siberian Husky, is excellent with my one-year-old son. But those long walks and endless shedding? Yeah, I get why not all families want a big, high-energy dog.

I talked to other dog parents (and drank too much coffee ☕️). I got the real story on small dogs that work well with kids, not just on paper, but in real life.

1. Australian Terrier

I love telling people about my friend’s Aussie, Scooby. He’s tiny, just 18 pounds, but he acts like he could fight a kangaroo.

Scooby shows why this breed is special. He’s always alert, ready to play, and walks around like he owns the place.

Aussie Terriers came from Australia in the 1800s. They came from British terriers brought by settlers. They were bred to hunt pests on farms.

Today, they bring that same energy home. They’re your family’s security and fun crew.

Kid-friendly

Aussies love being part of the family. They’ll cuddle with your kids. But they’re also quick to jump if something sounds off. They’ll bark to let you know someone’s at the door. Your kids might feel like they’ve got a pint-sized guard dog with a big personality.

And it’s not me saying that. Many note that Aussies’ “high energy level makes them great companions for children.”

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So, Aussies aren’t couch potatoes. They’re best suited for active, older kids who can keep up and who know not to yank a tail or startle them mid-zoomie.

Pros

Aussies bond deeply with their people. They’re small but brave. They’ll jump into action fast.

They treat your family like their own pack and guard it hard. Aussies also work hard. They love being part of the fun. Be it yard games, hide-and-seek, or a hike, they’re all in. Their tough past shows!

They do best with a job. For some, it’s getting the ball a lot. For others, it’s watching the kids and the gate for anyone odd.

Watch-outs

Heads-up: these small dogs come with their alarm. Aussies have a sharp bark. They are loud. They’ll tell you about every truck or squirrel that goes past.

They won’t break things on purpose, but they will dig if bored. Australian Terriers were bred to hunt. If there’s nothing to chase, your yard might get dug up.

Having small pets like hamsters or birds may not be the best choice, as Aussies’ natural hunting instincts can kick in quickly, making the situation challenging.

And yes, they are a bit headstrong. Teach them with calm and humor, but once they trust you, they want to make you happy.

Best for

Aussies are best suited for active dog parents and kids who enjoy playing.

They can live in flats if they get walks and games each day. However, they are best suited with a yard to explore or trips to run off steam.

They do well in all kinds of weather. Just be sure to have a warm coat for cold days or shade when it’s hot. Even small, high-energy dogs require assistance to maintain their well-being.

2. Beagle

If your child loves floppy ears and big eyes on their soft toys, you have to check out a Beagle. They’ll melt your heart.

They typically weigh between 18 and 30 pounds. Perfect for cuddles, lap snuggles, and all those backyard zoomies. And if you’re a busy parent with a 9-5 job, the best thing about having a Beagle is that their short coat is super low-maintenance. 

All you need is a quick brush and a bath now and then, and they’re good to go!

Kid-friendly

Like I mentioned above, Beagles are just like giant teddy bears! They are so gentle that you’ll want to cuddle with them all the time. 

They need to be in on everything your family does. Chasing squirrels, playing tag in the yard, or even just curling up for story time. If the family’s doing it, they have to be right there with you.

They’re famous for being amazing with kids – super gentle, totally goofy, and always ready for a game of fetch. It’s no surprise people call them ‘happy-go-lucky,’ because, honestly, they are!

Pros

Beagles are total social butterflies. They usually get along with other dogs. And even cats (mainly if they’ve grown up together).

They’re also obsessed with food. That makes training easy. As soon as you bring treats, they’ll follow your lead.

Wear them out with a long walk or a backyard sniff safari. By dinnertime, they’ll melt into your lap like a floppy, snuggly log.

Watch-outs

Beagles come with a built-in soundtrack. Barking. Baying. Occasional dramatic howl. It’s all part of their hound heritage, where making noise wasn’t allowed; it was the job.

This breed is an expert sniffer and shameless scavenger. If something smells like food, Beagles gobble it without hesitation. Countertops, backpacks, trash cans… nothing is safe. So you’ll want to keep treats high, trash sealed tight, and snacks well out of snout range.

And yes, their nose can lead them straight out the door. Beagles tend to bolt if something grabs their attention. That’s why leash walks or a fenced yard are a must.

Best for

Beagles are an excellent fit for active families. They need at least an hour a day to walk, sniff, or race around the yard.

They don’t need a big house. They do fine in apartments, too, as long as they get to sniff and stay mentally active.

Their shedding level is not bad, most of the year. But expect a seasonal “fur storm” in spring and fall. Their short coat doesn’t keep them very warm. They thrive best in mild weather, neither too cold nor too hot.

3. Border Terrier

Border Terriers are ideal for families seeking a smaller dog with a big personality. They’re only 10-15 pounds, but they are all scrappy charm in that wiry little body.

But be aware. Border Terriers can dig a hole big enough for a whole toy chest. And these dogs were just made for digging. They are also known for chasing and getting gloriously muddy.

They’ve these tough coats and bold little hearts, which make them fantastic buddies for kids who love to be outside and play.

Kid-friendly

Border Terriers are renowned for their affectionate nature and a strong desire to be part of the family. Seriously, they’re so friendly and full of affection; they’re happiest right there in the middle of whatever’s going on.

They form powerful bonds with both children and adults. One minute, they’re tearing around the yard. And the next moment, they’re fast asleep in your lap like nothing ever happened. Kind of melts you.

These dogs love to play. If your kids are into tag, tug-of-war, or even hiding treats, a Border pup will dive right in, zooming through it like it’s their job.

Pros

You know, Border Terriers were bred to chase foxes, which is wild! But at home, thankfully, they just chase tennis balls instead. They’re way more playful than anything truly wild.

They’re super loyal and full of spirit, but honestly, rarely aggressive. If they’re bored, barking is their go-to move, not biting, which is a relief.

Most Borders will zoom around like little rockets for a bit, then just flop right at your feet for a good belly rub. Kindness goes a long way with Border Terriers. Show them gentleness, and they’ll show you gold. They genuinely make loyal, hard-working little companions.

Watch-outs

That terrier DNA runs deep with Borders. I mean, digging and chasing just come so naturally to them. If you leave them bored for too long, they will dig up your yard or bark like crazy at every single squirrel. It happens – trust me and other BT parents on that one!

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To tackle this, you’ve just gotta keep their brain and body busy. Daily walks. Puzzle toys. Even brief, quick training sessions can have a profound impact.

Now, if you’ve got toddlers, you’ll want to supervise them closely at first. Borders are usually very gentle, but like any dog, they might snap if startled, especially if a child grabs their fur or pulls their tail. Just being safe there.

And a little early socialization goes a long way. It helps them feel confident around new people and stay calm when new things happen.

Best for

Border Terriers could be awesome for active families. They’re like, made for kids who love to run and play. 

They are total toy swipers, so be ready to share! They’re adaptable and do well in apartments or houses. But you’ve got to commit to those daily walks and give them stuff to chew on to keep them out of trouble. 

Their scruffy double coat makes them tough little cookies in most weather, and they’re the best winter snuggle buddies. That being said, extreme temps aren’t their thing. Keep a comfy indoor spot ready when the weather goes wild.

4. Cesky Terrier

Okay, so now you HAVE to hear about the Cesky Terrier! 

Seriously, they’re something special in the dog world. They are the gentlest, most loving Terriers you can come across. Ceskies are just so calm, and whether it’s chasing a ball or just chilling by your side, they’re happy. 

They’re a nice medium to small size, weighing approximately 16 to 22 pounds, and their silky coat is a standout feature. Cheskies are not super common, but once you meet one, you get why people rave about them.

Kid-friendly

Many dog parents call Cesky Terriers’ temperament ‘Swiss-watch kindness’ because they’re so steady, gentle, and incredibly patient with kids. 

Plus, they’re naturally calm and patient, preferring quiet playtime or snuggles, which is ideal for a gentle, furry playmate for kids.

Pros

I was just thinking about Cesky Terriers the other day – they are a fantastic breed. They strike such an outstanding balance between being easygoing and playful.

From what I’ve heard in various dog communities, they’re brilliant and eager to please, which makes them relatively easy to train, especially if you’ve some tasty treats or belly rubs on hand. 

They’re the kind of dog that loves to join you on a family walk, and then they’ll happily sit next to you on the couch and just fit right in. 

Another huge plus is their soft, silky coat, which hardly sheds, similar to that of a Bichon or Poodle, making them a smart choice for families with allergies. 

And for me, the biggest win is that they’re so sweet and affectionate without being overly clingy – all the love, none of the overwhelming chaos.

Watch-outs

So, a few things to know about Cesky Terriers, especially if you’re not familiar with the breed: Their coat needs attention. 

I know I mentioned their silky coat as a positive. And I still think it is. But maybe it’s worth noting it comes with some upkeep.

It’s long, and if you don’t brush it every other day or so, it’ll tangle. You could also get them trimmed once a month to keep it simple. 

Something else to be aware of is their Terrier roots; they were bred for tracking so that they might view smaller pets as prey. It’s just their nature.

With strangers, they can be a little reserved initially, but they come around quickly with a patient, kind introduction. The good news is, they’re not excessive barkers. Just enough to let you know if there’s someone at the door.

Best for

Ceskies are an excellent match for families who want a calm, loving dog. Ensure you’re comfortable brushing them a few times a week.

They do well in both apartments and houses. They need daily playtime and company. No big yard required—a little space to explore and stay close to their people.

Most Ceskies are sturdy, healthy pups who do well in moderate climates. Keep them cool in hot weather. Their silky coat doesn’t shed much, but it’s made for colder days.

Have a calm home and gentle kids? Looking for a dog that’s easy to train and full of quiet charm? This rare little terrier could be the perfect fit.

5. Japanese Spitz

Japanese Spitz are honestly like little white clouds of happiness. Super fluffy, super friendly, and just the right kind of silly. I’ll never forget the first time we met a Spitz puppy at the Cubbon Park in Bangalore.

She did this goofy little happy dance near the swings, and even the quietest kid couldn’t stop giggling. They’ve got this bouncy energy and that always-smiling face… It’s kind of impossible not to fall in love.

Kid-friendly

If you’re wondering about Japanese Spitz, they’re a huge ‘yes’ from me! 

The AKC describes them as ‘little comedians’. Loyal. Clever. And charming. What stands out, though, is how gentle they are with kids and other pets with early socialization.

They love being part of the family. They’ll follow your little ones around and join in for story time. They consider every family activity to be their own.

Pros

Japanese Spitz love being with their people. They soak up attention and never want to be left out.

They learn fast and love to show off. Give them an audience, and they’ll perform with pride—kids especially love that.

Their snowy-white coats turn heads everywhere they go, and that happy, squinty-eyed grin is constant.

Spitz has got the right energy. Something like switch-on, switch-off energy! One minute they’re bouncing around like a snowball in a tornado, and the next they’re snoozing in your lap like they’ve never known chaos.

Watch-outs

Japanese Spitz’s fluffy white coat repels dirt surprisingly well (bonus!).

But oh boy, when shedding season hits (usually spring and fall), your house could make you feel like living in a snow globe. Most Spitz parents do daily brushing for a week or two, and that helps keep the fluff bunnies under control. The rest of the year, a quick weekly brush does the trick.

And yep, they’re total chatterboxes. They will let you know who is at the door—be it a guest, delivery, or a suspicious-looking leaf outside. It would be best if you could start socializing Spitz early, as it helps with barking and makes them much more relaxed around new people.

One heads-up: they’re tiny Arctic wolves, so heat’s not their friend. In summer, they will look for AC vents and cool tile floors. Just keep an eye on them, and they’re golden!

Best for

Japanese Spitz can be a great fit for almost any family looking for a playful yet sweet companion.

They’re medium-sized and have the right energy. They do well in both apartments and houses with yards. What matters most is daily attention and playtime.

Keep that brush handy, especially during shedding season. Start training early. Let them meet new people and pets. They’ll grow into kind, well-behaved family dogs.

They’re usually gentle with kids of all ages. However, it’s still essential to teach young children to be gentle as well. Do that, and you’ll have a loyal, fluffy shadow that’s always ready for fun—or a snuggle on the couch.

6. Russian Tsvetnaya Bolonka

Next, we have a Russian Tsvetnaya Bolonka. We call her a “Bolonka” for short. She’s tiny, but her heart is enormous.

They’re toy-sized (9 to 11 inches tall and 5 to 11 pounds), but don’t let that fool you. These little charmers are packed with personality.

Bolonki were first bred in Russia to be lap dogs. They’re naturally loving, playful, and love being around people.

You can think of them like mini Bichon Frises or Poodles. Gentle, bright, and deeply devoted. Once they bond with you, they’re all in.

Kid-friendly

Absolutely. Bolonki tends to adore children. They’re gentle, patient, and genuinely enjoy being part of the fun.

Whether it’s sitting in on a tea party or tagging along for toy cleanup duty, these pups want to be included.

With early socialization, they grow into polite, well-mannered companions. But honestly? Sweetness seems to come naturally to them.

Pros

Their silky coat sheds very little. That’s great for families with allergies and for anyone who likes a clean couch (and yeah, black). 

Bolonki are lively and curious without being hyper. They love to learn tricks, snuggle under blankets, or trot happily beside you on errands like they’ve got a job to do.

You’ll practically hear very little about aggression in this breed. These dogs lead with tail wags and affection.

They’re total pugs like shown in Vodafone ads. Like, wherever you go, I follow. So, they’ll follow you from room to room like a tiny shadow. They’ll want to be everywhere you’re (and ensure you’re never left alone.)

Watch-outs

Bolonkis have got that classic Terrier bark features. Loud and alert. Expect them to sound the alarm when someone’s at the door (or when a leaf blows by).

Getting them along with small pets could be a very wrong choice. They were bred to chase, and that instinct still runs strong.

They’re smart but a little stubborn. Training is most effective when it’s fun, upbeat, and full of rewards.

And while they’re sturdy, they’re still small. It’s better to supervise play with very young kids so everyone stays safe and happy.

Best for

Bolonki is ideal for families seeking a small, affectionate dog. They’re also a good choice if someone in the house has allergies.

They fit in anywhere, whether in a house or an apartment. All you need to do is give them daily playtime and a bit of grooming.

These pups are built for cooler weather and love to snuggle up when the temperature dips. In warmer months, make sure they’ve got access to shade or A/C—they’ll thank you with tail wags and extra cuddles.

Want a small dog with a big heart? One that barely sheds and loves being by your side? A Bolonka might be your perfect little shadow.

7. Teddy Roosevelt Terrier

Meet Teddy. They are the tiny dogs with a big personality. But don’t let the cuddly name fool you; this little guy’s got the courage of a lion, the brains of a border collie, and a heart twice his size.

He’s built like a tank (low to the ground, muscles for days) but fits right in your lap when the adventures are done.

Teddies are bred as America’s ultimate farmhand. They are always on alert but also open for snuggles and cuddles. Teddies are a cross between a Jack Russell, a breed known for its high energy, intelligence, and boldness.

They can switch their mood instantly. One moment, they could be serious and dutiful. And the next moment, playful and endearing.

Teddy’s motto? ‘Life’s short—let’s play hard, love harder, and nap immediately after.’ To be honest,  I stan.

Kid-Friendly

100%. Teddies are known for being patient, protective, and full of playful energy. They’ll zoom around with your older kids in the yard, then happily flop on the couch for movie night.

They love having a job—whether it’s carrying a toy, playing fetch, or simply tagging along with the family. And yes, they form strong bonds with their people, including children.

Early socialization helps channel their smarts and confidence in the right direction. Supervision is smart with very young kids (because Teddies are small), but overall, they adore being part of the fun.

Pros

Compact, sturdy size makes them an excellent fit for homes or apartments. They’ve got energy to burn but don’t take up much space.

Super smart and eager to please. They love learning tricks, puzzles, or anything that earns them praise (and maybe a treat).

Low grooming needs. Their short coat is easy to care for—just a quick brush now and then.

Loyal to the bone. Teddies are big-hearted snugglers who won’t want to leave your side. Expect them to follow you like a shadow.

Great watchdogs. They’ll alert you to visitors with a bark, but aren’t typically yappy if well-exercised and trained.

Watch-outs

Here’s the thing about Teddies—they’re fearless. Like, stupidly fearless. A Teddy will stare down a dog three times their size without blinking. That confidence is charming, but it can get them into trouble at the dog park. Keep an eye on them around bigger dogs who might not appreciate their bold attitude.

Their hunting instincts are real. These dogs were bred to chase rats and other small critters. If you’ve hamsters, rabbits, or even cats, you’ll want to supervise them closely. Some Teddies do fine with cats they’ve grown up with, but that prey drive can kick in fast.

Teddies are escape artists. They’re low enough to squeeze under fences and smart enough to figure out latches. If you’ve got a yard, double-check your barriers. These little Houdinis will find the weak spot.

They can be possessive of their favorite people. If your Teddy bonds extremely tightly with one family member, they might become jealous when other dogs or even kids try to get their attention. Early socialization is beneficial, but it’s something to be mindful of.

Best for

Teddies are perfect for active families who want a small dog with a huge personality. They’re ideal for kids who love to play but also want a loyal companion for quiet moments.

They do great in apartments as long as they get their daily exercise. A good walk, some backyard time, or indoor play sessions will keep them happy. But they’re not couch potatoes—they need mental stimulation too.

Their short coat makes them low-maintenance, but they’re not built for extreme cold. In winter, they’ll need a sweater for longer walks. In summer, they’ll seek out cool spots and plenty of water.

Want a dog that’s part adventure buddy, part lap warmer, and 100% devoted? A Teddy Roosevelt Terrier might be your perfect match.

Bonus: They’re still a bit of a hidden gem. So if you’re looking for a unique, kid-loving dog that’s equal parts clever, cuddly, and tough-as-nails? The Teddy Roosevelt Terrier might be your perfect match.

Big Fun Starts With the Right Little Dog

Choosing a dog for your family is as much about personality fit as it is about size.

I hope these breed snapshots (and quick tips) help you find a small, kid-loving pup who feels just right in your home. Every dog is an individual, of course, but knowing the typical traits of these breeds means fewer surprises down the road.

Here’s to many joyful, wagging tails and cozy cuddles ahead and to the coffee chats we’ll have about them later! 😍